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So, something really kinda freaky happened today.
It's a long story, so bear with me...
Anyway, you know how I have all those bad dreams?
Well anyway, I had another one again last night.
The "city" I was in broke out with this terrible disease. I was in this tower-like place, a skyscraper or a large hotel I'm not sure. Anyway, some important political candidate was there for the election, and while the election was unfolding, the government started evacuating the building, with a small amount of important people first in a plane or helicopter, except for the rest of the evac-team. Anyway, it took hours or days for the next evacuation of people to get out of the building. No one was sick, but they started evacuating people in a quick amount of time. I discovered in my dream they weren't evacuating anyone but the soldiers, and they were doing that after slaughtering everyone so they wouldn't spread the disease and die. I told everyone and incited a panic, and then I went and hid in some air vent in a fancy bedroom and a soldier came after me... then I woke up.
Anyway, oddly there were two candidates for governor at the airport in town today. Found that out when I woke up. Just odd...
Anyway, I went to this bowling alley/pool hall/arcade with my boyfriend and while we were driving home, we were stopped at the light... it takes forever to get back on to the road going home, so we were talking.
Anyway, to the left is the Best Buy where last friday we were looking at stuff there and I got really pissed because the sales reps there approached the guys like a whole bunch of times, but nobody would even stop to let me ask them if they'd help me, so I left after a half an hour of just standing there and waiting and I was thinking about my dream and my day... anyway, as we were stopped at the light today, I saw a flash and heard this loud pop. I thought it was like a gunshot or something, so I covered my ears and looked at the parking lot to Best Buy.
The transformer in their parking lot blew. After a couple seconds, the lights to the buildings that had lost power came back on.... and it blew again after a couple seconds. It struck the ground. It had been raining all day, but I don't think it was a lightning strike because there are a lot of buildings and stuff nearby that probably would've been hit instead.
So the power comes back on two more times and the transformer just keeps blowing and hitting the ground with all this electricity. I started laughing cause it was hilarious that it was in the Best Buy parking lot. I just thought it was kinda funny and sorta like kharma.
But I was talking to Lee in the car on our way to the bowling alley earlier about my dreams and how there's always this feeling in my really bad/evil dreams. It's not fear or dread or anger... it's sort of sickening, similar to dread. I was telling Lee when we passed the Best Buy earlier that day that I wasn't sure if my dreams were just me doing that subconciously or if it was like I was training myself to see evil, or if it was something interfering with my dream, but I just thought it was really strange that later when I passed by the place I was talking about my dream that the building I had been so angry in on Friday had a transformer blow in the back of the parking lot, not thirty feet from where we'd been parked on Friday.
I swear I didn't hex the place or anything.... what do you guys think?

Wow that's really crazy... Sounds like you and my cousin have something in common.

Yep, that certainly sounds like an incubus or lilu to me.
If I were you, to prevent more dreams such as this or even a sleep paralysis episode, I would purify the room where I sleep (through smudging), keep the bedclothes clean and orderly, maybe even move things around in my room (and of course clean the room as well), and then make sure to go to bed clean and in clean clothes, at least for a while.
Also, I would hang a dream catcher over my bed (not on the wall, but actually over the bed), in a way that lets the morning light near it at least. If it happens again or nightmares persist, I would continue with the cleansing regimen and add in some salt around the room, throw up some thorough wards, and keep things near my pillows such as Guatemalan worry dolls, purified quartz crystals, some rosemary or other purifying herbs such as cinnamon, mint, lavender, white sage, angelica, garlic flowers if possible or else feverfew. Keeping some running water nearby is good, too. I have a mini battery-operated fountain in my room for such purposes.
If you're really worried, I would also specifically use these essential oils:
Frankincense and Myrrh, Clary Sage, Clove and Cinnamon, Peppermint, Eucalyptus, or Rosemary.

Otherwise, I wouldn't worry about it. Incubii and incorporeal creatures such as them feed on fear and lust.

Or it could just be a manifestation of your fears regarding your boyfriend, or an intimate relationship in general.