Kims_Prince
Note: we are open to everyone here, we just happen to be more of an expert on lesbian issues then anything else.
Have you thought over why you don't want to kiss in that way? I might not have anything to do with your sexuality, but might be something deeper. I think you need to do a lot of soul searching to find out what you want and don't force yourself to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. The only way to know if it is the lesbian side speaking is to think about how you feel about kissing a girl. Are you more willing to kiss a girl or is it that same as with your boyfriend? If you have more of an urge to kiss a girl then you know there is an issue that must be confronted, however if you feel the same discomfort with kissing a girl as a boy then you know it is something else that is bothering you.
So for now you might want to explain to your boyfriend that you are uncomfortable about going any further at the moment. If he has a problem with that then it is his problem. You should only do what makes you feel right and don't let anyone force you into anything, male or female.
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Kat
Well, I thought about it a lot last night...I've actually been thinking about ending the relationship for a while now, because I'm not at all attracted to him. And the more I thought about it, I realized that the only men I've ever really felt attracted to were insanly girly, or even Gay.
Every day, I walk down the hallways of my college, and I don't look at the men passing by, nothing more than a glance.
When I walk down that hallway, I'm checking out
the women. Without fail. The thought of even kissing a guy seems icky to me. Kissing Matt was awkward unless it was on the cheek in the way I'd kiss my brother or something.
The thought of dating another women...It excites me. It seems
right. I fantasize about women all the time. And as I said, the only guys I've ever fantasized about were either Gay or so girly they actually got mistaken for women by people.
[I actually broke up with him today. We are going to stay good friends though; he IS my best friend, after all.]
So I think I've come to a conclusion, at least for now.
I've dated a guy, and didn't like it. I'll try the other side. ^_^
It seems right.
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