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lady_yaki
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 22, 2007 3:11 pm


Should you? do you feel you should be married before having kids?

Yaki says no. I wasnt married when i got pregnant and i think thats ok. (im married now tho) If you get pregnant before marriage , i say its okay. Its okay if you didnt exactly plan it. Things happen. Its not the end of the worl.
PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 10:44 pm


I agree, you don't have to be so long as you can take care of the baby

little_liz


Malekie

PostPosted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 5:22 pm


I agree.Though I've never been married I have been able to take care of my baby girl just fine.
PostPosted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 4:26 pm


I think it's better for everyone that the parents are married before getting pregnant, but if you aren't married to eachother, it's no big deal. Kylee and I aren't married, and we take care of our daughter together just fine.

TouPou


Ze Wall Pickle

PostPosted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 9:45 am


I agree with TouPou while it would be nice, you know not having to deal with dating and the like later it isn't absolutely necessary.
PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 1:31 pm


I think it would be better to be married, but I wasn't, it was a mistake. but now the outcome i will never regret, but me and her father do not get along at all, he wasn't there for me during the pregnancy, nor at the hospital, nor afterwards did he come to see his daughter, so her last name is mine, his name isn't on the birth certificate, and now he has her and won't give her back so i have to go to court over it, and hopefully I get custody, b/c at her birthday party, i asked her " where is daddy and she looked right over at my fiancee. and then when her other grandmother asked her the same thing she then point at him for Jamie to notice, and Jamie gave her a look like What in the heck are you talking about that ain't my daddy.

mocha20


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 11:26 am


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For me I think it doesn't matter as long as the baby is raised in a home that 1) Is economically fit to spend top dollar for the baby 2) If a relationship is in the picture, it's for sue, a real deal, a for sure. I believe that I might actually become a wealthy person, and by the time I think I am economically fit by living in a hymell, which I don't know the English word for it sad but it's a very small one room apartment, usually a loft for sleeping and a very small other room, quite like a dorm except you don't have to go to school for it. Or share it. Regardless they are very cheap, so basically you can save a lot of money to get a nice house, nice furniture so forth and still have money left over, then after that very possibly raise a child as a single parent.


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