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 Posted: Mon Sep 14, 2009 1:49 am
Ahh I haven't made a rant in here for awhile... Here is something to get off my chest.
NEVER FALL IN LOVE ALL OVER AGAIN FOR AN EX.
I broke up with my second ex in July because I fell out of love with him due to depression/issues in the relationship. Meanwhile, my first ex comes back early this year and we became friends and slowly restarted our relationship in August (yes early but id doesnt hurt to say you tried) and it was big arguements and fighting and it was indeed too soon for me. We still loved each other though but we both agreed I wasn't ready for it yet.
Anyways as time passed on, I find out recently he wants to move back to BC. I was a bit upset at first but I want to support his choice so he can be happy and that can make me happy. Like they say sometimes, if you love something, you have to let it go and if its meant to be, it can come back to you. I was planning to go to BC for schooling in a few years for game design so who knows? Maybe we would see each other again. The other night we had a bit of a romantic encounter and everything was nice. Saying we would love each other from a distance. I was pretty happy though knowing inside I was probably going to become nothing more than just a girl that was because he would find someone he loved in BC. If he is happy with that person than it would be ok with me..
Anyways, for the past few days, I've been contacting him everyday at least in the morning just to say hello and have a good day and that i loved him and he's been avoiding me it seemed. so today we talked about it and i guess it turns out that he can't look away from the past mistakes i've made when I could and was willing to work with him. in otherwords, anything he said on our romantic encounter was really just bs from him.. something he has done simliarly in the past, (i think i ranted about this saying he was in a relationship 2 weeks later when we broke up the first time). Meanwhile, I was serious about being in love with him and supporting him from far away.. sure it sounds silly but its love.. aka my feelings are MOOT
the TLDR story - Deeply in love with an "old flame" who is moving and now wants nothing to do with me.. just like before >_>
Edit - and also never tell a girl that you know is in love with you and is serious about her feelings that you are willing to love her from a distance as well, leading her on
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Posted: Mon Sep 14, 2009 6:07 pm
Yeah, I re-dated a few exes, and broke up with them again for similar reasons in most cases.
I'm sure there are SOME cases where the second go works out in the end, but generally speaking, if you've broken up, there's a good reason for it, and it's not going to change.
Because 99.9% of people don't change in any major way.
Which is what I'm counting on, honestly.
A long-term couple I know is going through a divorce, because the girl wasn't happy with certain things, but she decided that getting married would change things for the better. Sigh.
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Posted: Wed Sep 16, 2009 11:57 pm
It's true. Most people dont change their actions or their words. I expect this to go in the same path it did the first time around. If he does come back I plan on not letting him back in. I rather not be abandoned again.
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