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Good...um...what ever time it is there! You may call me Michi. Though I am not one of those who wish to find a match, I am here to offer a little more guidance. We have a thread that's no longer really...being monitored....which is here in case you'd like to see the potential candidates! If you want to repost C: then go for it...there's just a little more structure here so that you can contact people on your own. I'm just here to help with giving you folks a place to look C: please delete your thread if you're taken or update it with a "MATCHED", "TAKEN", "UNAVAILABLE" or something to hint of that you're not on ze market so to speak at the top of the post in case you want to use it again.


And yes...feel free to socialize in this thread if you so wish C: I won't chomp your head off cause that'd just be silly! ^__^



Now, rather than droning on and on, I'd like to present to you the guidelines and the format you'll be using to figure out if you're compatible for one another ^^ also...please be sure you're following guild rules! Thaaaaanks!

G.U.I.D.E.L.I.N.E.S .............. They make the world go 'round C:

+People who share about 3-4 interests with each other should consider contact

+Since age can be a concern (and more than likely will), yet not always a priority due to how some people are mature (I don't mean perverted. But wise & not childish and would hold an intellectual conversation), perhaps middle school - high school age groups consider each other first, high school - college age groups. This way it's a tad bit more comfortable and no one gets disappointed that they're "too young" or "too old" for someone.

+If something works out, then post in the thread that you're unavailable or simple remove your past post C:

+Most importantly, be honest and yourself, no one likes finding out that they're dating a fantasy.

+Another important one, stay within each other's comfort zone and don't pressure or twist things around (Aka choosing words wisely). Everyone should know this C: but it never hurts to offer reminders.

+The person you end up with may have been hurt in previous relationships, please take that into consideration and respect that as much as possible. No one wants to be hurt the same way again, it may not be intentional...yet it happens at times due to caution being thrown to the wind.

+Follow your heart, if it doesn't work out then it's no use dragging it on and it's best to say something about it. That way the both of you can find the romance branch of happiness elsewhere. Relationships are one of the things we all can be selfish about since it can make a big impact on our lives.

+This is IMPORTANT! There will be a section I post about how you feel about dating someone who may be a transgender or even consider transitioning. I want you to be as honest as possible because it can be an issue :/ I don't wanna see people saying they've been dumped because so-and-so wasn't supportive of a decision!


F.O.R.M.A.T ................. Yummy yummy order? C:


Name: This is optional seeing that some people don't like putting thier first names up.

Nicknames: Again, optional, but if you got any you wanna share, post it riiiight on here C:

Age: Be honest, please heart no one likes a liar! Plus, this is to help people stay within their comfort zone age groups.

Gender: Male? Female? Trans female? Trans male? Let us know here :3

Sexuality: Lesbian? Bi? Pansexual(personality = priority, gender blind, so to speak so you dun have to wiki it)? Or something else? Share, share!

Likes: At least 4 things, but don't limit yourself to just that! The more you mention, the more someone interested in dating will know about you. Common ground is a very good thing. Genres do in fact count C:

Favorite Colors: What colors do you like? Or just color...most people have more than one favorite color ^__^;;;

Favorite Animals: Favorite animal or animals C: hey...we can be cat AND dog people!

Shows or Books: What shows do you enjoy? Or even books :3 yes, anime, cartoons, manga, and comics DO count.

Bands/Music: Have a burning passion about a music group, songs, or artists? Then feel free to post it on here!

Dislikes: What do you not like? At least 4 things, but don't hesitate to mention more, it's good to know!

Talents: Can you cook really good or draw well? Something you specialize in, even computer repair!

Hobbies: What do you do with your spare time? ^^ Draw? Write? Read? Run in circles? Whatever it is, feel free to mention it here C:

Quirks: This is where you get to talk about your super special self C: Your personality and such cause it's a lil silly to expect a date when you don't even know about the person!

Opinion on transgender: I think this is a bit important because some people looking for a relationship may be considering a gender transition or even had one. It's only fair that you hold your opinion here so those who may be considering or already are know whether or not you're ok or your viewpoint if that's important to them ahead of time. Not expecting an essay here, even a "doesn't bother me heart " will suffice(ANDITSHOULDN'T!consideringyouprollywouldn'tofjoinedthisguild). Even something like "I'd rather date a girl, but I'd support the decision if I love them", just be honest C:

Anything else you wanna share?: If there's more you'd like to share, go for it here! I may have missed something but you can go a head and stuff it in this section!




WELP! Go for it C: good luck, all of you!

P.S: Didn't add a picture section cause some people may be uncomfy with that on the get go. AND! You folks will need to step up to the plate and contact one another, I just posted this so you folks looking and searching have a structured resource ^^v,,

Thank yoooou! C: glad you like the revision, I was trying to think what people find important to help with he dating process considering the other thread was really vague and then left to grow. Plus o.o I saw some posts where people seem to be looking but can't find anyone. Hopefully this will bring you folks happiness *-*

Personal:

Name: LaShawnna

Nickname: I don't have one

Age: 20

Gender: Female

Sexuality: Bisexual

Likes: Anime,Manga, Cats, Art, Night time, Cold weather, History, Thunderstorms,Cellos, Snakes,Vampires.

Favorite Color: Blue,Black,Red

Favorite Animals: Cats, Black Panthers, Snakes, Crows/Raven, Wolves.

Shows or Books: Manga: Kuroshitsuji, Fushigi Yuugi/Fushigi Yuugi Genbu Kaiden, Hana Kimi, Loveless, etc....

Band/Music: Classical, Green Day, My Chemical Romance, AFI, The Gazette, HYDE, Versailles, Abingdon Boy's School, HIM, Tokio Hotel, Nupagdi, Dresden Dolls, Malice Mizer, Girugamesh, Linkin Park etc ....

Books: The Key trilogy, Circle trilogy, Divine Evil, Twilight series (Not by Stephanie Meyer.) The Witch of Cologne, Number of the stars, Island of the blue dolphins,Tempted etc ....

T.v. Shows: Golden Girls, Forensic Files, Pawn Stars, Clash of the Gods, Queer as Folk, The L word, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel etc ....

Dislikes: Liars, Alcohol, Smoking, Cheaters, Homophobs, Mornings, Mustard, Clowns, Pink (No offense to anyone who likes the color.), Hot weather.

Talents: The only one that comes to mind, would be writing.

Hobbies: Writing, Stained glass painting, Reading, Video games etc ....

Quirks: Does being opinionated, and open minded count?

Opinion on Transgender: I'm very open minded, and don't judge people for who they are. I think it would be great to have a transgender friend.

Anything else you want to share: I'm a very quiet person, till you get to know me then, I'm a bit more hyper, and zany. I don't trust people very easily, due to things happening in my past. I would also like to find a serious relationship, none of those flings for me. I don't like to admit it but with the right person I can be a down right cheesy romantic. I also tend to be dominant one in the relationship, don't be deceived by my looks wink I'm into S&M as well.

scream This stupid thing wouldn't let me post the first time around so I lost everything and had to retype. /flail

Name: Michelle

Nicknames: Micha, Mishii, Squish, Squeaky, Chica

Age: 19

Gender: Female ;3

Sexuality: Pansexual

Likes: Cuddling, sleeping, playing video games, reading, relaxing. I'm lazy as shieeeeet. I'm also a disney fan @ heart.

Favorite Colors: Pink purple magenta red black grey white andddddddd neon green.

Favorite Animals: Chickens. Parrots of any type, Cats and dogs, Ferrets.

Shows or Books: Death Note, Katekyo Hitman Reborn!, Paranoia Agent, Gundam Wing AC, One Piece!, Monster!, the list goes on. I like watching Numb3rs, NCIS (YAY DINOZZO o/), Bones, Smallville, Scrubs. Loveless, Futurama, Family Guy, The Simpsons.

Bands/Music: Eminem, Rammstein, Nightwish when it was with Tarja, E Nomine. My music tastes vary, though I do refuse to listen to some classical music, jazz, some opera and anything to do with country or screamo.

Dislikes: Insects. Spiders to be exact. Homophobic or racist asses, people who think they are better than others. Seafood. Cheaters, as most of the people I've dated in the past decided they'd cheat on me . X.X

Talents: I can draw okay I guess, and I'm up for cooking things and trying out new recipes or ideas.

Hobbies: Read, Watch TV, play videogames, be lazy. Hang out with friends, go shopping or annoy people.

Quirks: I can be random, I can be extremely hyper at times. I like sweet things and will go out of my way to get them.

Opinion on transgender: As long as me and the person "click" personality wise, I don't care what gender they are.

Anything else you wanna share?: I've got ADD/ADHD and Bipolar. My mood likes to swing more then I'd prefer it to.

hey c:

Name: lindsey

Nicknames: some of my friends call me linny, or linds, call me what you'd like (:

Age: i'm 16, but mature for my age.

Gender: female :3

Sexuality: bisexxxual

Likes: being lazy, girls, texting, hanging out with friends, writing, riding dirt bike, playing lacrosse, living life c:

Favorite Colors: yellow~

Favorite Animals: i've got two dogs and two cats, put prefer dogs c:

Shows or Books: scrubs, mystery diagnosis, anything on mtv/vh1, as for books.. i like comics and that's about it aha c:

Bands/Music: i have a wide variety of music that i like.. pretty much everything from rap to pop to indie to whatever hah i guess it just depends on my mood c:

Dislikes: throw up, being nervous, rude people, hospitals, being sick, insects, vacuuming and cheesecake.

Talents: hmm, the two things that come to mind are writing and lacrosse.

Hobbies: welll, i like to write, play ps2 and wii ahaha, ride dirt bike, eat, play lacrosse, text, crack my neck, be myself c:

Quirks: i try to be an all around chill person, but i'm also really sensitive. when i fall for someone i normally fall hard. i've been single for awhile now, mostly because i guess i don't know where to find cool girls. hopefully this will help c:

Opinion on transgender: i had to think on this one, but honestly i guess it doesn't really matter to me. i mean if you're chill and we get along then i don't think that it matters what gender you were born

Anything else you wanna share?: this is random but i think that if we date, you should know so i'm gonna tell you. this last spring i almost lost my life thanks to a doctor's error. i had gotten my appendix and gall bladder taken out because i wasn't feeling well, during the surgery he burnt a hole in my intestine without realizing it. anyway, i went into septic shock(google it). long story short.. i spent this whole spring in a children's hospital. ~i'm alright now, so please don't feel bad for me or anything.

<3 add/pm me if you wanna talk <3

Name: Jeannette

Nicknames: Jean

Age: 49. Srsly.

Gender: Feminine - mtf ts

Sexuality: Pure Lipstick Lesbian

Likes: Cats, dogs, furry critters including tarantulas, small snakes, dusy chrysocolla, ALMS and F1 races, cheesecake, bittersweet chocolate, hugs, stuff I can't say here ;^)

Favorite Colors: vivid sparkly electric cyan, emerald green, purple, colorchange from blue to pink

Favorite Animals: See above smile

Shows or Books: New shows? NCIS (go Ziva!), the newer Doctor Who, Torchwood. Old? The Addams Family, The Prisoner, The Avengers (until Emma Peel left) Books? Th Moon Is A Harsh Mistress, Goedel Escher Bach, Gossamer Axe, Trouble and her friends.

Bands/Music: ABBA, ABBAcadabra, ABBA Teens, Anifrid Lyngstadt, Deodato, Alan Parsons Project, j-pop, j-rock, k-pop, Varttina

Dislikes: Trnsphobic people, liver, swordfish (I break out in hives), hip-hop, rap, most opera.

Talents: I cut gems and make jewelry, write trans/lesbian kinky erotic romance stories, wiggling my ears, typing with my nose. Srsly.

Hobbies: Cutting gems, making jewelry, writing, reading.

Quirks: I talk too much. I tell horrible bad puns. I snore.

Opinion on transgender: MtFs are women, if they're willing to walk the walk. FtMs are men if they walk the walk. Until then, they're wannabies. I love women, whether or not they have a Y chromosome.

Anything else you wanna share?: I've got advanced MS and am quadraplegic. I'm not looking for romance, but an online friend of legal age to hlp me write bettr by reading my drivel.