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 Posted: Sat Dec 12, 2009 10:52 am
I know its not for everyone. But, all I hear from my family is "abortion this" or "adoption that." Like I would... Or even could give up my baby simply because my Boyfriend left after he found out I was pregnant... That is so not fair to me, is it?
Anyways, just wanted to see what anyone else thought. Oh, and I'm 19. All of my friends say I'm the most prepared teenager they know for this kind of thing. But I still get scared out of my wits and end up spending half the night crying anyways....
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Posted: Sun Dec 13, 2009 4:01 pm
I am the kind of person where I would rather let my child have both a mother and father. I know that isn't for everyone but the is the person I am. I can not wait to be a mother someday. However, I would never give up a child and I know that. If I had to be a single mother I would do it but I would rather have both a father and mother in my child's life.
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PrincessSerenity_Mkingdom Captain
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Posted: Thu Jun 24, 2010 3:57 pm
im proud of you because you seem to be brave.
all the tension and worry is just normal. especially that you are thinking of what might happen next.
but i hope you pushed through with your pregnancy.
i know it's hard especially that there are so many things ahead of you---many opportunities and possibilities if you just have the right attitude and perseverance.
and your baby is a bonus! yes, a bonus!
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Posted: Fri Jul 30, 2010 7:54 pm
I think that if you seriously believe you can raise a child on your own then go for it.
I'm raising my daughter alone, (except for the help I get from my mom). Her father didn't know I was pregnant... and he still doesn't know to this day.
We're doing fine, though it gets hard financially.
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Posted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 7:40 am
i got separated just this june when i found out my husband was cheating on me. even i was 7 months pregnant then, i let him go because he impregnated another woman who was only 20 years old and just gave birth 6 months to another man, before he impregnated her.
i thought my world was doomed because while i was having a hard time with the stress, my husband and his mistress was also emailing and texting me mean things. it was ironic because i did not ever bother them but they wanted to hurt my feelings. my friends and family said that these two are bitter and they just couldnt accept to know that i was okay and i did not react the way one would react when she finds out that she was tricked by her husband.
i gave birth last september 8 to a baby girl.
being a single mom is challenging but when i look at my baby girl, i find strength within me to be strong for my baby girl. i have to be, and i should be strong.
that's all for now.
take care! heart
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Posted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 3:26 pm
well don't feel too bad, I'm going to be a single mother by choice, my babies daddy and his family is all drama, and i don't want to be around that, especially since he was emotionally abusive to me when we did date, and eh hit me. So yea you get the picture, but maybe it's best, but also you shouldnt go at this by yourself, so take out child support and if he doesnt want anything to do with the baby thats ok, at least your the bigger person taking care of a child it took 2 people to make,
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