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 Posted: Mon May 17, 2010 8:24 pm
Sometimes..I do wish I was in a relationship with someone...someone who accepts me for who I am, who never asks me to change the way I am.
I just don't want to be rejected like I have been so many times in the past. I think I am ready, but...at the same time I don't think I truly am. But to be honest I feel that I'd make a great gf well in their case since they wouldn't know yet a bf..but I can't bring myself to go up someone and ask them out or whatever. I'm too chicken s**t. I mean I'm an awesome person, I'm a nice and caring. So why should I care about rejection? I dunno it just hurts, and eh I gotta try I guess, but I know one thing guys. I am never going to stop being me. I'm never going wear the mask and pretend to be someone I'm not because that's just not me. and lastly I'm not going to ever use stupid online dating sites. Ok rant over.
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Posted: Mon May 17, 2010 8:49 pm
rejection will really hurt a lot smile you'll think nobody accepts you and hates you :/. you use dating sites??! lol sorry 'bout that.
well, in my opinion, wait for the right guy I guess smile that'll keep out you from getting rejections.
being somebody you're not sucks xd 'cause it only makes you lie to people :/ well it's good that you know that being somebody else isn't going to be... YOU. eh, I can't say anything xd I'm out of words xd
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Posted: Mon May 17, 2010 8:56 pm
ZukiAngel rejection will really hurt a lot smile you'll think nobody accepts you and hates you :/. you use dating sites??! lol sorry 'bout that. well, in my opinion, wait for the right guy I guess smile that'll keep out you from getting rejections. being somebody you're not sucks xd 'cause it only makes you lie to people :/ well it's good that you know that being somebody else isn't going to be... YOU. eh, I can't say anything xd I'm out of words xd Thanks, yeah it's best to be yourself and just be yourself act natural. No I'm just saying I'd never use online dating. I've never done it and I don't plan to.
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Posted: Fri May 21, 2010 8:24 am
Patience, someone will come along =P
Rejection's always going to hurt =/
Just be yourself..that's the best anyone can do biggrin
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Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 10:02 am
Yeah rejection hurts D:
It's okay, you will find someone who will be right for you! Just take a deep breath and ask. It's hardest the first time you do it. Remember even if they say "no", tomorrow will still come and you will still be the great person that you know you are. I do have to say though that once in a relationship you will have to make some compromise. Nothing large like changing your personality or what you like, but little stuff like trying to do what the other person enjoys once in a while or cutting back on certain things.
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Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 3:58 pm
I've...given up on relationships.
I know I'm asexual to a certain degree, which would likely piss my partner off when I found a thousand other things I'd rather be doing than sex, and after the experience of my last boyfriend...let's just say that I haven't trusted anyone beyond a certain degree after he came along.
Nope, drawing and plotting out ROTS is a lot more important to me. I'd rather be doing that any day.
You know something's wrong with a relationship when it gets hot and heavy, and you're about as bored as you were when you were a kid, waiting for your parents to stop talking to their friends while you were expected to stand around and be quiet.
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Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 8:48 pm
Thanks guys. I know it's not easy but I'll keep trying on finding that special someone out there
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