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 Posted: Thu Jun 17, 2010 2:19 am
轻言细语 孔明 The land is united at last....No, the land was always as one....
So almost everyone I know asks me this exact thing. "Well, you're dating a guy, so are you going to dump him for a chick after the sex change?" NO! I am sick and tired of everyone assuming that you have to be straight. It seems more acceptable for a bio male or bio female to be gay but a woman who is becoming a man can't still be attracted to men? WTF?!? It makes absolutely no sense and it's really getting on my nerves.
I had someone tell me that because I'm with a guy it means I'm not actually meant to be a guy and I'm actually just a tomboy. WHAT THE HELL GAVE YOU THAT IDEA?!?!? What does who I have sex with have to do with whether I'm a real man or not? If I want to associate myself as a gay male then that's all there is to it, growing a p***s won't suddenly turn me from a "straight female" who was meant to be a guy into a "straight male" who is now in the right body. People fail to realize that sexual attraction isn't a ******** light switch!
Sorry for the long rant, but I got asked this TWENTY TIMES today, and I'm about to start yelling at people for it....I know going onto T may change how I look at people sexually, but until then I consider myself a gay male, and my boyfriend doesn't mind one bit.
It was man who has been divided....
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Posted: Fri Jun 18, 2010 3:59 pm
A lot of people were rather confused about my relationship with James when I came out as transgender. Every time I had to explain myself, they'd always ask "what about James?" as if by transitioning, I was automatically breaking up with him.
We're still together though, and many of those confused people have gone through several failed relationships. (Ironic!) I hope it shows people that sex is really meaningless .. and in some ways so is gender .. it's all about love in the end.
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Posted: Fri Jun 18, 2010 4:27 pm
I get the same thing, only I'm with a mtf but people still misgender her as male so they think I can't really be a guy because I am with her (because they think of her as a guy) or that I will eventually be breaking up with her (same reason.)
Hell even if she was a guy it wouldn't make any difference in my gender, not even my sexual orientation which is bisexual-pansexual.
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Posted: Mon Jun 21, 2010 1:11 am
I know... >.< Once when I told someone, he asked, so does this mean you're going to be lesbian? I said Okay first of all, you have to be a woman to be a lesbian, and second of all, I'm bisexual...
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Posted: Sun Aug 01, 2010 5:44 am
*Pats* Yeah, I've heard people complain about this. I don't have enough friend to ever have gotten the question tho'. But it's pretty easy for me to explain, cuz I just tell them I'm gay, I only date guys. (I like to pretend that they'd have a funny expression on their face, as anyone who askes that stupid question usualy don't expect people to be open about being gay.)
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