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OK,so recently a lesbian girl tried hitting on me, and of course I played along. but when I announced I wasn't gay she got really upset... and the next 2 days I thought about her... She then texted me and we started talking talking. I am not sure what changed in her mind but she told me she wasn't ready for a relationship and I lost her. Now, she's all I think about. Being gay isn't something my family supports so I want to be sure I am before I come out. I don't have an attraction toward another female besides her And I can't shake her. I need to know. How to get her back. Or how to know who I am inside.
Not to sound crude or anything, but that sounds like karma got you back. I hope you learned that leading people on is not okay. You'll end up hurting them, yourself, or both parties. I think she changed her mind because she lost your trust and now moved on. You could try and ask her if anything is a problem and slowly rebuild that trust. And for your sanity, do not obsess on ways of getting her back. Let things occur naturally and this time be honest.
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