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Different...Very. Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue May 15, 2007 1:49 pm
I can't do those. I mean, I might confront someone about something, but I can't keep it going. I tell them what my side is and then I can't argue it because I just back down. I sit/stand there and take what they have to say, listening but not absorbing unless I really do understand their point. This may grow to be a problem in my future.
Are you good at arguing? Are you quick to argue? Do you like arguments?
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Posted: Wed May 16, 2007 4:22 pm
oh, I'd be the queen of arguing. I have bad anger though, and my one guy friend argues like hell right back, we could be arguing for quite awhile actually. kind of annoys me that he can't accept a woman being right xd
oh and I am pretty quick to arguing and do kinda enjoy it, especially since I have very compassionate things to say sometimes and can on occassion get people to switch to being on my side twisted
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 5:22 pm
oh man.... i hate confrontations. I hate arguments. just like Different...Very I usually just back down. I usually lose debates because I just give in, maybe I'm some spineless jellyfish (no offense to invertebrates intended) well there are those rare moments I actually argue and fight for what I think is right, to get my point across. Actually, I rather have civil talks, instead of arguments. though, they are still confrontations somewhat >.< I guess that is a main reason why I cannot really handle debates well. (well for a grade I will put my all in it ^_^ though I loath closings...)
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Posted: Sun May 20, 2007 8:02 pm
Twice, this guy has backed me into my cave with his wrong points. He just came at me so strongly, I felt it wasn't worth going against him. I brought up the issue, and he fired off his side. I might have poked my parts in, but he only barked harder. I can't fight with people like that. If you apparently feel so vehemently about your point that you have to shout it, I won't try to sway you from that.
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Different...Very. Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun May 20, 2007 9:36 pm
I agree. You can't really talk civilized with people you constantly scream and yell. There is nothing you can do. They won't really hear you, and they just become blinded by their rage and become so close-minded. That's another reason why I like being non confrontational. But, then again, does that mean I'm a coward? Hmm... well there are those times I would speak up and stand up for those I care about. hmm xd
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Posted: Mon May 21, 2007 9:02 am
I remember once my friend and I were with a group of girls shopping at a CVS store. Some of the girls decided to start stealing some petty nail stuff and so did my friend. I saw her and confronted her. Then, we all got caught and called to the front of the store. We waited for the cops to come, the girls who wren't stealing were crying (except me, who was boiling inside), and the guilty girls were being chastized by the manager. After they were done with the cop, and went up to my friend like I was her mother, yelling all these things about morals and thinking before you do and not following the crowd etc etc. I was crying and shouting and stomping and all. Usually when I confront someone I end up crying. whee Crying with either rage, fear, or dissappointment. I wonder how I'm going to be with my children.
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Different...Very. Vice Captain
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Posted: Fri Jun 01, 2007 6:06 pm
Oh my goodness... don't worry... I'm like that too. For example, said "friend" is angry at me for some stupid immature reason. I am not exaggerating how immature she is... believe me, she is just plain crazy... she stopped talking to me because she was jealous. Well, I tried confronting her this one time, and the silent treatment. I was trying to be the more understanding and rational person, but I guess she is just so gahh.... Well, I did end up confronting her, luckily I did not cry and scream. I was boiling. I was actually able to control myself. Maybe because I thought that she wasn't worth my tears and anger. And it helps to vent and let all that emotion out with a true friend/sister. So yeah...
And I hate getting in trouble for something I did not do.... that is so unfair... that whole stealing scenario.... so not fair. I'd probably be one of the girls that were crying.... or silent but fuming. ^_^;;
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Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 12:51 pm
I tend to be good at debates, yet others take it to far. Some people think that by me not agreeing with their views I'm not going to be friendly. I just like to talk about different views on things. I'm amazing in school when we have to debate. I can take the side I don't agree with and make it nearly win.
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Posted: Thu Jun 21, 2007 3:10 pm
Well I prefer to call what I enjoy Debating, not arguing. Although they can pretty much be the same thing, lol. I plan on joining the Debate Team once I enter highschool
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Posted: Sun Jul 01, 2007 5:19 am
Oh how I long for the deep sleep dreaming...
Can this be used as a b***h and Moan thread? xd
No. I like arguments if I win. mrgreen If not, I just stop, but i know inside that I'm right ninja
...The goddess of imaginary light
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Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 8:11 pm
hehe~
well i try to be open-minded. i like to get a perspective on things even if i don't agree with it. it doesn't hurt to listen and offer differing views to get the full grasp on a situation~
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Posted: Fri Jul 06, 2007 3:45 pm
Enchantity hehe~
well i try to be open-minded. i like to get a perspective on things even if i don't agree with it. it doesn't hurt to listen and offer differing views to get the full grasp on a situation~ Exactly 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 9:59 am
i dont really care that much when there is an argument i just sit and laugh at them ninja
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