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Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 2:18 pm
As feminists there are road blocks we encounter every day. Personally, I'd stress myself out if I didn't vent about it. So here's a place to get on your soap box and rant. I don't know if this'll catch on, I just thought it was a nice idea.
So what's been on my nerves lately is shoujo ai. I'm a big fan of shoujo ai related material. However, it has been pissing me off how so much of it is pedaphilic and fetishized. Erg!
Here's another one; I was talking to a friend and I mentioned something about the LGBT community and all he had to say was that lesbians are hot. Some times I just want to yell at guys to stop acting so male centered and that everything is not about them and what they like!
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 3:05 pm
I'm so sick of my peers saying s**t like "I support womens' rights and all but..." But what? You don't want to be called a feminist? ******** that. Grow a spine and get over the stupid stereotypes.
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 3:16 pm
Heck yeah! That drives me nuts too, especially in academia! We should be over this. I just went through that with a friend of mine, he's a smart guy and all, then he figures out that I'm a feminist and asks me why I would want to be a man hating dyke. Guess he's not that smark. sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 6:44 pm
savy squirrel Heck yeah! That drives me nuts too, especially in academia! We should be over this. I just went through that with a friend of mine, he's a smart guy and all, then he figures out that I'm a feminist and asks me why I would want to be a man hating dyke. Guess he's not that smark. sweatdrop Wow. I've never had anyone say that to me. eek Yet. Oh, I have another one. I can't stand when people get pissy because people only talk about sexism against women in a thread about SEX DISCRIMINATION. Since when are men discriminated against for their sex on the same level women are? "OMG Y ARNT U INLCUDING TEH MENZ?!!1" Because men aren't the center of every issue.
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 9:38 pm
I love calling myself a man-hating dyke. surprised
It scares people. wink
I hate it when people go, "I like my women wearing bras, not burning them."
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I like my men in thongs, but you don't see me announcing it . . . . wait. Nevermind. ninja
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Posted: Fri Jun 01, 2007 8:41 am
hehe...ya know all the courses I've taken that discuss feminism usual emphasize that there never was any real bra burning, that it was staged by the media. Interesting stuff.
Just last night my friend who is also in the women's studies program at my school was complaining about the very same thing Ernie. In a male centered society that mentalitiy is inevitable. Start talking about something that doesn't include men and they get confused and uncomfortable. I had a guy like that in my class on Women in the Developing World. No matter what we would be talking about, he would say something totally off topic just to bring men into the conversation. One time we were talking about FGM and he starts going off about how men are oppressed in Africa too because of the heavy expectations on them. I swear the entire class rolled their eyes at that point.
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Posted: Fri Jun 01, 2007 10:35 am
Ok, I've got another one. As much as I love Japanese culture the treatment of women and children out there really gets to me. Although pedphilia is generally taboo, it is still widely accepted in the "boys will be boys" kinda way in Japan. This is reflected in all facets of the culture, including media and anime. I've noticed how many anime fans seem generally more accepting of pediphilic media as well. Gah, it just makes me so mad! Series that clearly sexualize children such as Chobits or Negima are widely popular and it doesn't even seem to cross anyones mind that these are legally children being portrayed in these stories.
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Posted: Sat Jun 02, 2007 2:38 am
Quote: However, it has been pissing me off how so much of it is pedaphilic and fetishized. LOL well as far as I know, everything related to anime... no wait, everything is at one point ***** and fetishized. Okay, I accept some of that up to a certain point, but it's just sick where it's gotten to. And I hate it when my fellow males join a rant about feminism and women in general talking about how society treats them and go "Well it's not easy being male either ya know!", okay I agree not everything about males is great and peachy, but shut up! we're not even half as... tortured I could say as the female population. And speaking of man-hating dykes, can u imagine how people(including women) look at me when I say I'm a feminist? XD and then I'm like "okay... anti-sexist if that's easyer to swallow"
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Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 12:03 am
I hate being called a whore for giving someone a ride home.
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 1:24 pm
Madman_V3N0M Quote: However, it has been pissing me off how so much of it is pedaphilic and fetishized. LOL well as far as I know, everything related to anime... no wait, everything is at one point ***** and fetishized. Okay, I accept some of that up to a certain point, but it's just sick where it's gotten to. And I hate it when my fellow males join a rant about feminism and women in general talking about how society treats them and go "Well it's not easy being male either ya know!", okay I agree not everything about males is great and peachy, but shut up! we're not even half as... tortured I could say as the female population. And speaking of man-hating dykes, can u imagine how people(including women) look at me when I say I'm a feminist? XD and then I'm like "okay... anti-sexist if that's easyer to swallow" Yeah its very true that pretty much everything is fetishized and pedaphilic...particularly anything out of Japan. You should totally get that shirt from Feminist Majority that says "This is what a feminist looks like!" across the front. It would be a hoot. wink Luthien, that just plain sucks! I'm sorry to hear that, it sounds like someone was being a real jerk to you. You don't deserve to be treated that way.
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 8:40 pm
savy squirrel Luthien, that just plain sucks! I'm sorry to hear that, it sounds like someone was being a real jerk to you. You don't deserve to be treated that way. That makes me feel better heart
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Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 12:03 am
I really hate how women need to be protected from society. Bullshit! Women are more likely to be attacked by someone they know rather than a complete stranger. Even then, men are more likely to be the victims of violence. ******** bullshit hypocrisy!
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Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2015 11:57 am
The slut shaming though. I should be able to wear whatever I damn well please without having to worry about what a police officer would say if I got raped. This whole "She deserved it" s**t pisses me off.
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Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2016 1:00 pm
[Ernie] I'm so sick of my peers saying s**t like "I support womens' rights and all but..." But what? You don't want to be called a feminist? ******** that. Grow a spine and get over the stupid stereotypes. Well, it's quite possible they aren't feminists, but instead are egalitarians... It's a far more sensible stance, that doesn't have any goal aside from equality unlike feminism which seeks to give women an unfair advantage over men.
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Posted: Sun Aug 21, 2016 1:03 pm
Madman_V3N0M Quote: However, it has been pissing me off how so much of it is pedaphilic and fetishized. LOL well as far as I know, everything related to anime... no wait, everything is at one point ***** and fetishized. Okay, I accept some of that up to a certain point, but it's just sick where it's gotten to. And I hate it when my fellow males join a rant about feminism and women in general talking about how society treats them and go "Well it's not easy being male either ya know!", okay I agree not everything about males is great and peachy, but shut up! we're not even half as... tortured I could say as the female population. And speaking of man-hating dykes, can u imagine how people(including women) look at me when I say I'm a feminist? XD and then I'm like "okay... anti-sexist if that's easyer to swallow" I don't think you can be both a feminist, and anti sexist... Feminism is a sexist movement, that favors women's rights with no regard for equality.
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